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First time being called "embarrassing"

There was a guy that hung out with me several times in public then 2 weeks later told me that he was embarrassed to be seen with me in public and doesn't want to see me again but would like to remain my friend on Facebook and to delete him if I get into a new relationship. Why would someone be embarrassed to be seen with me in public?
I also just don't understand why he would want to remain friends and only get deleted when I get into a new relationship, when he was embarrassed to be seen with me in public?
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MissNoahLenFoxx · 31-35, F Best Comment
just delete him right now. he is obviously the weird one, and you don't have time for that! *snap*snap*
SledgeHammer · 46-50, M
@UltimateDemiGoddess I think,before you delete him....ask him why he thinks you're embarrassing to be around...

At least you'll be able to process his way of thought.
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@SledgeHammer I don't want to bother him so I haven't asked. If he ends up messaging me in the future, I will ask that question.
MissNoahLenFoxx · 31-35, F
@UltimateDemiGoddess Don’t waste your time. What he thinks doesn’t matter. It’s obvious he has a big ego and acts entitled. Those types of people see what they can get away with. They see if they can control you by breaking you down. These types of people are red flags and are potentially dangerous. Asking him why at this point is giving him your power. You don’t want him to have any of your energy. He doesn’t care about you he cares about himself. Don’t give him any chances to steal your power. Your energy is personal and it is your most prized possession. Use it wisely. He is not well. Tell him good riddance!

Healthy people understand you for who you are, in the moment you meet them. People you want to surround yourself with will automatically enjoy the time they have with you. They will not look at you with disgust. They will smile at you. Find these people.

Richard65 · M
He sounds like a confused person. To be honest, I wouldn't want to be friends with someone like that. Don't automatically think you're the problem, you're not, it's him, he's got the problem. You're lovely. He's probably jealous for some reason. You're much better off without someone like that in your life.
SledgeHammer · 46-50, M
I had a friend that i was embarrassed to be around when we were young, but it was because he would pick in his nose alot..

Thats not the issue here, is it?
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Lol
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@SledgeHammer hahaha definitely not.
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
His behaviors are quite inconsistent for sure...makes no sense. As others have said it sounds like you'd be better off just cutting this one off completely.
Peek4U · M
He probably was insecure.
You look great.
Now... if you were passing wind...he may have a point 😜
Chiefjustice · 46-50, M
That is an awful thing to say. There is no need for him in your life.
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@Chiefjustice yeah no one needs a person like that in their life
Chiefjustice · 46-50, M
Delete him and let him be heart broken. **Wow, that was fast.** New boyfriend. AND You are going to make me look better in public.😁
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@Pitchblue haha that's very sweet of you
MambaJuice · 41-45, M
His probably on crack
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
Peter1985 · 36-40, M
Sounds like a weirdo
Peter1985 · 36-40, M
@UltimateDemiGoddess u are an absolute goddess
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@Peter1985 thank you Peter
Peter1985 · 36-40, M
@UltimateDemiGoddess pleasures mine
Jessmari · 46-50
You remain in his Facebook black book until you are no longer single.
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UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@HijabaDabbaDoo true. I just don't want to seem affected. So I'm going to let him block me or delete when he's ready. He will just be ignored.
@UltimateDemiGoddess you'd seem like you had standards.
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496sbc · 36-40, M
@UltimateDemiGoddess always im on ur side
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@496sbc haha thanks
496sbc · 36-40, M
@UltimateDemiGoddess u know it sweets
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