What type of guy dates you for 4 months says he loves you and talks about marrying you then randomly tells you

That sounds like manipulation to me. I would tell him that you are glad he is wanting to better himself and to come back when he feels more equipped for a relationship.

There are all sorts of possibilities.

People have responded with good ones.

Here is another. He might have some secret he is ashamed of that he thinks makes him unloveable.

Or here is another, not exactly independent of the first. Maybe , based on his own experience, he doubts that he can stay faithful, and he is breaking up because he figures you deserve better.

The list goes on and on, and we would simply be speculating.

Unsure but that might be me later in life. I know that when I struggle with things. I shut down and walk away from friends.

He either has doubts arising from somewhere or other, whether it’s about you or himself.

Or he was always using you for a short romance and it’s ran his course and this was his intentions from the start.

Take your pick. 🤷‍♀

He may just be being honest with you and he has a legit reason...Maybe he's doing you a favor???

He’s the type of guy that figured it out in 4 months so I’d say he’s a smart guy

His wife came back from visiting relatives

An annoying one?

a guy that got what he wanted from you

A guy that ask u to marry him after only 4 months

The kind of guy that you don't mind got away?

One that lacks confidence

Sounds like a guy who is afraid to get serious

one who kills off his own game
or he cheated

could be one of these

He’s someone that’s mentally weak.

Don’t delay his quitting on the relationship.

That depends... does the guy have a cat at home that he takes pictures of and then posts to the internet of his favorite social media site?

[ Him ] : "I'm not boyfriend material"

[ @Lulujeans squad ] :

The type of guy you run away from ... FAST

He’s just being dramatic