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Sandcastler Amibellina only said that she never said women weren't users, which is a true and complete statement. She also expressed her experiences, which were also a true and complete statement.
It is no different than when you tell someone, "Gosh! I'm tired!" and the other person says, "I was so tired all last week!" It doesn't do anything but create a commonality.
That's all she did.
She (i am assuming) only has intimate relationships with men, so that is going to be her experience. I have only had relationships with men, so my experience is a commonality between her and I.
I shouldn't have to explain how conversations go. These are basic elements. Peterlee decided to take it personally for some weird reason.
Toxic people are everywhere. It isn't based off gender, age, race or anything. It is simply based off people and how they consider other people in their lives. For some, that means growing and shareing. For some it means taking everything they can get out of someone. And then there is every spot along the spectrum because people are a myriad of things.
My original post was because I see a lot of men posting how they want a "nurturing" woman, but can't seem to find one. Having someone who is nurturing isn't something that just happens. It is something that develops over time with trust, security and love. But men who claim they can't find that really need to look at themselves and see what they are offering. Is it equitable for what they are wanting? Probably not if they haven't found the woman they are looking for.
That is literally all I eas saying, but in short form because I figured, most people would ve able to figure it out pretty easily, or ask questions before making assumptions.
