Am I the asshole

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Sam

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Am I the asshole? So one person is me and the other is my “situationship” Sam, now me and Sam have been snapping for the best part of a month, things get pretty spicy two days ago I sent a nude. Now I don’t regret it I wanted to and I’m pretty sure he’d never share it, but I was careful anyway and it’s not identifiable as me. But still it’s a pretty vunerable thing for me to send and so yesterday he asks for another one and I say no and he replies “if the next snap you send isn’t a snap of your beautiful tits I’m gonna leave you on open” so I replied “I guess you’re gonna have to leave me on open” and now he’s left me on open since last night and maybe even indefinitely. Who’s in the wrong ?

Pizzaguy213 · M

It’s Sam 100% if you sent something so precious to you out of confidence and you trusted them with that and they abuse that. It’s 100% on them. You have every right to be respected and treated right so you totally did nothing wrong ☺

sstronaut

I don't use Snapchat a lot, but correct me if I'm wrong...

But hypothetically, if you were to send another picture, then wouldn't Sam have to close that current picture to see the new one?

If so, in theory you could send a new picture (of a car tire or something stupid) and he would have to close the original picture to open and see the new one?

Also, if he wanted to save the old one, couldn't he just take a screenshot? He wouldn't have to keep it open?

SparklyBubbles · 18-21, F

@sstronaut well I’d be notified if he screenshotted but he could’ve always taken a pic of the screen with another device that’s always a risk