Am I the asshole

Am I the asshole? So one person is me and the other is my “situationship” Sam, now me and Sam have been snapping for the best part of a month, things get pretty spicy two days ago I sent a nude. Now I don’t regret it I wanted to and I’m pretty sure he’d never share it, but I was careful anyway and it’s not identifiable as me. But still it’s a pretty vunerable thing for me to send and so yesterday he asks for another one and I say no and he replies “if the next snap you send isn’t a snap of your beautiful tits I’m gonna leave you on open” so I replied “I guess you’re gonna have to leave me on open” and now he’s left me on open since last night and maybe even indefinitely. Who’s in the wrong ?