I've seen the opposite - a stepchild who hated her new mom. The mom was lovely and treated the child well. But the stepchild just resented her because she wasn't her biological mom. The more the mom did for her, the more the child resented her.

Lol! Funny you asked this. My own father hated me. How I handled? With patience I gave him the respect and care he never deserved but I played my part.

My dad was married four times and had a ton of girlfriends, I just pretended they didn't exist.

Not a step parent no but an inlaw absolutely

Is talk to him if I was you cause hate is a very strong word and when you think someone hates you the mental chatter in your mind that starts over that thought then the mind can play tricks with you .
Your feeding poison , not him , but you

When I was a child I got beat pretty bad.
I ended up forgiving them.

Yes, but we worked things out after she got stuck in the clothes dryer.

No, thankfully not. Have you? 🥺

Thankfully no, what did you do

Yes my stepmother , she was really mean, made everything to make my life feel like hell

If you had a terrible stepdad, how did you deal with it

No, I'm the one with ultra hateful stepchildren

No.

Yes