I have a friend who at times will be distant during a hangout and then during other hang out they will be very engaged and energetic…

It’s a little confusing bc I’ll go into the hangout feeling amped bc I’m assuming they will be, but then they won’t be, or I’ll be chill and mellow bc I’m assuming they will be, but they will be amped instead. I’m not sure what to expect. I’m not sure how to feel about it either. How would you feel about it??