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Badfeeder · 36-40, M
I’d MAKE you fatter . Don’t be scared to be curvy and happy. You’ll live plenty long!
Badfeeder · 36-40, M
@Badfeeder it’s your life, live it up. Whatever creates less suffering is the right path to take

smiler2012 · 61-69
@Subalugirl 🤔you are not fat you have a nice figure
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
@Subalugirl You've got subcutanious fat but not the nasty rolls you see on a lot of women. Eat clean, lots of protein and exercise. Running is good. You're pretty young as well so you can probably lose that preatty easy.
He clearly doesn’t respect you or your feelings. You know what to do. You’re just not ready/willing to do it.

Bowenw · 61-69, M
The last thing you need when you are trying to regain your confidence is someone criticizing you like that. He should be doing everything he can to help as that's what partners are for. He seems to be more interested in superficial things than you as a person. It sounds like it is time for you to move on.
pdockal · 56-60, M
Time for new boyfriend
He's suppose to support not break down
MissNoahLenFoxx · 31-35, F
@pdockal I think about it… I think about someone who wants me as I am…. But then I’m afraid there will be a day with them too that they will not love me like they did at the beginning..as it was with this guy… so then is there a point? Is this better than being alone?
pdockal · 56-60, M
@MissNoahLenFoxx

Alone is better then what your going thru
Elisbch · M
I didn't read all of what you wrote. I didn't have to. Your BF is clearly disrespectful towards you and that should STOP. It will only get worse. Please, set some boundaries!
Everyone telling you move on from this boyfriend is missing a more important issue. You're fat, and you know it. He's merely a gadfly, you can stay with him or not, but you will still be fat afterwards in either case.

Assuming you don't want to be a fatty stuck in body positivity hell, I would recommend looking into diet changes and exercise. I was depressed for over a decade in isolation and gained alot of weight- I got on the keto diet and loss alot of weight, then hit a plateau where I at least coupdn't easily gain the weight back. Last thing I needed was a bunch of people tellijg me to love myself and have body positivity. I needed people to call me fat to shake me out of it and change. Just I was so isolated they couldn't do it. So I stayed fat. It was unhealthy and bad for me.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Your not fat , sound like you be better off without this one as he’s obviously undermining you mentally
smiler2012 · 61-69
@MissNoahLenFoxx 🤔putting aside the mutual love by each others family you should not be having too put up with that sort of nonsese from your partner. i am surpised you still are together too be honest as this is negative and very unhelpful remarks he makes towards you . he wants too put his brain into gear beforehe speaks as it was a silly remark like that why singer karen carpenter died
Miram · 31-35, F
Is your bf's name Anwar?
Miram · 31-35, F
@Miram You are the one dating the dude. It shouldn't matter what other people think of him. They aren't the ones who are wasting time and resources on him, you are.
oldguy73 · 70-79, M
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Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
Idk why you’d ever be with a man that calls you fat 🤷🏾‍♂ wicked work

 
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