Yeah I actually don't want kids

I want the security that often comes with having a man's kid. That's why I get kinda bitter about dating dudes with kids...because that kid's mother is ALWAYS gonna come first, even after the kid is an adult.

I really need to find a dude without kids to settle down and build a life with.

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butterflybaby75 · 51-55, F

There are lots of men with kids who've been mis-treated by their ex's. I got lucky with an amicable breakup.

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Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

I know lots of upper middle class guys that are unmarried without children…. But they don’t live in Arizona

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

@Muthafukajones men like that don't want women like me unfortunately

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@DearAmbellina2113 I'm sure many would want you🪻🫂

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@DearAmbellina2113 Being desirable to men is much more about how you act than how you look.

Guardian

May I ask why you don't want a child?

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

@Guardian it's enough work just to take care of myself. Plus I don't want to bring anybody new into this world.

Guardian

@DearAmbellina2113 I understand

easterniowegin · 51-55, M

Too many women lack awareness in this situation.
Many non-traditional women want traditional men without realizing that traditional men actually prefeer traditional women.

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

@easterniowegin I am as traditional as you can get with the exception of not wanting kids.

Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F

There are a lot of men that hate their baby mamas.

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