Yeah I actually don't want kids

I want the security that often comes with having a man's kid. That's why I get kinda bitter about dating dudes with kids...because that kid's mother is ALWAYS gonna come first, even after the kid is an adult.

I really need to find a dude without kids to settle down and build a life with.

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easterniowegin · 51-55, M

Too many women lack awareness in this situation.
Many non-traditional women want traditional men without realizing that traditional men actually prefeer traditional women.

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

@easterniowegin I am as traditional as you can get with the exception of not wanting kids.