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Why would the guy you're dating keep accusing you of cheating on him with an ex crush?

He is insecure, and these insecurities tend not to be purely imaginary. You did something, however unintentional, to reip this very human instinct in the male mind that we've evolved over millions of years to trigger a warning in his mind, and this inference is often right. Right enough to be easily triggered in the male mind.

A man too accepting and trusting of a woman is either prone to be a cuckold, or has a wife too unappealing or way too old to much worry about.

So accept this as a compliment, and try slowly over time to backtrack and figure out exacrly when this concept popped up in his mind, and don't belittle him for how silly and inconsequential the originating occurence was. The unconscious isn't a force to be brushed aside and deminished in the face of reason or outside perspective. Most people will get jealous if triggered. He has clearly been triggered. Jealous is as much part of being a man as it is in being a woman. It is part of the human condition, part of the inner world of the opposite sex and you just gotta grow to live with it.

And any woman coming here saying it is a red flag needs to be ignored. They are crazy people.
BigImo · 22-25, F
Because that's probably exactly what I'm doing
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
Are you cheating on him with your ex?
Lulujeans · 26-30, F
Madmonk · M
Because you are
Lulujeans · 26-30, F
He wants a date divorce to make a play for half of your jeans...! 😉🤣

Seriously...hmmm...insecure or controlling?
Oh, yeah, laugh it up, high-end jeans girl, always flaunting them, @Lulujeans!

😉🤣

I'm sure you look great in a fine pair of jeans.
Lulujeans · 26-30, F
@SomeMichGuy 😜☺☺
smiler2012 · 56-60
@Lulujeans this guy sounds like you have no future with how can you commit too a man that makes wild false accusations of his suspicions without a shred of evidence
SnipingSvelte · 26-30, F
insecurity, and the fact that he's probably cheating 🤷
Northwest · M
Did you ask him why?
Lulujeans · 26-30, F
@Northwest because he saw me talked to my ex crush.
deadteddy · 26-30, F
He’s in his feminine era 😂.
MarineBob · 56-60, M
Lulujeans · 26-30, F
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
He's cheating on you.
HannahSky · F
He's done that before
longhairedcougar · 51-55, F
Don't think so
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
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