Do you prefer to be dumped or ghosted when things go south in a relationship? I prefer to be...

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

Dump. I think nearly everyone deserves the respect and courtesy of a goodbye to find closure.

Primnproper · 56-60, F

Dumped..so i know where i stand..ghosting is just being a coward.

I'm pretty sure I would show up at her place if ghosted if we had been dating. If I found it empty, that would hurt. But if not, I'd kinda would be a little annoyed seeing someone peeking through a window real fast and not answering.

SomeMichGuy · M

How about if he sends you a Ziploc bag...a closure?

SomeMichGuy · M

OR... the set I of integers, and the operations of addition and multiplication, which represent closures on that set?

s1nx4my · 18-21

Dumped all the way! You're right about having the closure you need when getting dumped Ghosting is just so cruel. I wouldn't wish for anyone to just be ghosted; not even my worst enemy.

OlderSometimesWiser · F

Ghumped. Gives me time to get used to their absence and then I can learn the reason for the breakup to get some closure. Also gives me time to prepare sarcastic retorts.

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

And at least you can always say 'but you dumped me !" If they decided to try and reestablish contact at a later date

Missbirdie1986 · 36-40, F

Being in a haunted relationship is exhausting because you don’t know if you can move on or not because there’s no closure

YourMomsSecretCrush · M

if i get ghosted for at least three days, i will go ahead and move on. they just didnt have the stomach to let me know officially. LOL

Rambler · 61-69, M

I always felt being dumped is better, at least you know you meant enough for them to put forth the effort to get rid of you

SmileOnYourBrother

Having learned, I won't get close enough to have either choice bestowed upon me. 😊

To answer the question, I would rather be dumped.

PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F

Being dumped saves so much time and dodges the whole process of making a voodoo doll of them.

ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M

I prefer to be paid off in return for swearing not to sell our story to the media.

tamguy · M

Ghosted so that I can think,"Oh my god!She might be dead.Sad for her".

496sbc · 36-40, M

Yes then u at least know what is going on. Me i never been dumped so.

Houdini · 56-60, M

Don’t think I would want either of them to be Fair

Elisbch · M

Dumped..... lesser of the two evils in my opinion

DailyFlash · 56-60, M

I think ghosting is cruel.

Nitedoc · 51-55, M

Dumped. At least you get closure.

vetguy1991 · 51-55, M

Id rather know when its done

Thirstymiami · 46-50, M

Dumped

ThreeLittleBirds · F

💐🤗

I was never that invested 😘😌

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Do you prefer to be dumped or ghosted when things go south in a relationship? I prefer to be dumped because at least I have some type of closure😅