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Do you prefer to be dumped or ghosted when things go south in a relationship? I prefer to be dumped because at least I have some type of closure😅

Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Dump. I think nearly everyone deserves the respect and courtesy of a goodbye to find closure.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
Dumped..so i know where i stand..ghosting is just being a coward.
Onasander · 41-45, M
I'm pretty sure I would show up at her place if ghosted if we had been dating. If I found it empty, that would hurt. But if not, I'd kinda would be a little annoyed seeing someone peeking through a window real fast and not answering.
How about if he sends you a Ziploc bag...a closure?
@Elisbch But she wants closure when it might not be available.

If "his" testicles WERE available, I'm sure she'd like to make him a eunuch via a zipper accident and let them fall into the Ziploc. Then she could preserve them in a Lucite cube.
Elisbch · M
@SomeMichGuy

You definitely got a point there judging from her laughing emoji response,......LOL 🤣
@Elisbch We might as well have some fun.
OR... the set I of integers, and the operations of addition and multiplication, which represent closures on that set?
Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F
@SomeMichGuy you're funny🤣🤣
@Witchthatwantsfun I'm just trying to provide closure where there might not be any directly attainable...AND get you to laugh. lol
s1nx4my · 18-21
Dumped all the way! You're right about having the closure you need when getting dumped Ghosting is just so cruel. I wouldn't wish for anyone to just be ghosted; not even my worst enemy.
Ghumped. Gives me time to get used to their absence and then I can learn the reason for the breakup to get some closure. Also gives me time to prepare sarcastic retorts.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
And at least you can always say 'but you dumped me !" If they decided to try and reestablish contact at a later date
Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F
@Picklebobble2 right!!
Being in a haunted relationship is exhausting because you don’t know if you can move on or not because there’s no closure
if i get ghosted for at least three days, i will go ahead and move on. they just didnt have the stomach to let me know officially. LOL
Rambler · M
I always felt being dumped is better, at least you know you meant enough for them to put forth the effort to get rid of you
Having learned, I won't get close enough to have either choice bestowed upon me. 😊

To answer the question, I would rather be dumped.
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
Being dumped saves so much time and dodges the whole process of making a voodoo doll of them.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
I prefer to be paid off in return for swearing not to sell our story to the media.
tamilguy · M
Ghosted so that I can think,"Oh my god!She might be dead.Sad for her".
496sbc · 36-40, M
Yes then u at least know what is going on. Me i never been dumped so.
Houdini · 56-60, M
Don’t think I would want either of them to be Fair
Elisbch · M
Dumped..... lesser of the two evils in my opinion
DailyFlash · 56-60, M
I think ghosting is cruel.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
Dumped. At least you get closure.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Id rather know when its done
Thirstymiami · 46-50, M
💐🤗

I was never that invested 😘😌
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