How did it feel when u got divorced ?

Were u sad , happy , frustrated , missing him or her straight after , thinking it was a mistake even thinking you will be lonely and alone for a long time after ?

What was your reaction ?
Did u do everything u can to safe your marraige ?

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istillhaveanameitsrick · 56-60, M

Before I actually filed for divorce I attempted suicide, I found the pictures on the computer on Thanksgiving day and made my attempt the next day. Ended up in a hospital for 5 days, felt like a failure for some time after, I assumed that I had somehow failed my wife causing her to cheat on me. My doctor convinced me to file for divorce (I wasn't going to initially) unless she agreed to counseling which she refused. That was 15 years ago, and even though I have since remarried I still feel like a failure.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@istillhaveanameitsrick sorry to hear that...atleast u came out of a terrible situation......

Fluffybull · F

@istillhaveanameitsrick You're not a failure, your ex-wife is.

PatKirby · M

@Fluffybull
Yep a 304 who rationalized it then proceded to emotionally abuse him.