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Can you help me understand?

When you're in a relationship with someone, are you supposed to always feel them inside? You know what I mean? Because when you're bonded to someone you feel them right. Is it all the time or some days you don't?
in10RjFox · M
Not really. But it is true that while in a relationship, souls begin to merge and become one, and we become like conjoined twins. So each becomes a body part in the other, and in most cases, one of them tends to master the mind of the other and takes full control, where one becomes fully possessed by the other. This state is called the marriage, where the souls merge.

So it's better not to allow the relationship to grow to the extent that one loses their individuality.
Northwest · M
“Let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.

Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.

Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.

Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,

Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.

For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.

And stand together, yet not too near together:

For the pillars of the temple stand apart,

And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.”

― Khalil Gibran, The Prophet
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
You do feel them as in spirit right, but what happens if there's someone guilty in the relationship the spirit separates from each other and then you don't feel the relationship .
It's like being on your own then even tho your still in a relationship .
Not matter how hard you try to get the relationship back when there's guilty in it your spirit will seperate you from it .
Or if your in a relationship and there's guilty in it and trying to make the relationship work if there's guilty in it it ends up toxic and co dependency.
That's where the real pain comes in after the break up .
That's my view on relationships
Convivial · 26-30, F
It's different for everyone... It's not healthy to fixate on someone 24/7 .... You need to do the things you enjoy too
Okieta · 31-35, F
@Convivial Oh really?.. this is news to me.. 🤔.. 😓well then.. that's one step forward.. thank you
Convivial · 26-30, F
@Okieta just as people experience pain differently, so too with love
SlaveEt · 36-40, F
I do. Why? What's up?
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LandOfOz · 61-69, M
Ìts like anything reallÿ ,you have somethiñg but it's not in your thoughts all the time. That doesnt mean you dont love tĥem, its an overall feeling thats part of whať makes you feel good
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Bumbles · 51-55, M
Imagine them gone to understand just how much…
Sounds as though you are describing cannabalism.
Depends on how close the bond is i guess
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
No I don't
Montanaman · M
Major Feels!😊🤗💖

 
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