You do feel them as in spirit right, but what happens if there's someone guilty in the relationship the spirit separates from each other and then you don't feel the relationship .
It's like being on your own then even tho your still in a relationship .
Not matter how hard you try to get the relationship back when there's guilty in it your spirit will seperate you from it .
Or if your in a relationship and there's guilty in it and trying to make the relationship work if there's guilty in it it ends up toxic and co dependency.
That's where the real pain comes in after the break up .
That's my view on relationships