I think my boyfriend is emotionally abusing me :( , we are in a long distance relationship and anytime I say something he doesn’t like while on call

@LoneVoice it amazes me how people come here for advice and then reject it.

@Jenny1234 Why do you think I answered as I did? Like a "dick" 🙄 . Because there are two sides to every story and one of them we never get to hear. 90% of the people here don't want advice. They want attention.

@LoneVoice NAH I always come on here for advice , strictly advice which is why my account is anonymous, I keep it very real with my followers and everyone here . I have enough attention in real life thank u!

@Onhold hmmm I guess so

@Cherryblossom10 if by chance the things you're saying are things that are necessary to say, for example the way you feel about his actions, and he chooses to leave to dismiss how you feel... then I might be swayed more towards the abuse side.

@NativePortlander1970 😂 Wot a simp. Give it up. She is too young for you, old man.

@Jenny1234 What did I not comprehend?

@Cherryblossom10 Of course it isn't. 🙄

@LoneVoice lmaooooo

@Cherryblossom10 regardless of whether or not you want to continue talking to him if he has a reason to leave the call then he's entitled to do that. calling that emotional abuse is actually dangerous...

@looping but it is emotionally abusive cuz he only ever wants to end the call after I’ve said something he doesn’t like , he ends it strategically

@Cherryblossom10 don't listen to @looping

@rfhh1959 ohh but I feel the long distance works for me because I can focus on college more and work cuz I don’t have to make time to see someone once or twice a week , but I do meet him once a month for like 3 days

@Cherryblossom10 Excellent points just saw many friends in college not explore relationships that were available to them

@Cherryblossom10 it is

@Cherryblossom10 well if you want him so bad that it's worth putting up with being treated like shit, that's on you. Obviously that's not how you want to be treated. But that's what he's doing. He has no respect for you, he does not love you. Some things in life aren't easy, it may emotionally be a difficult thing, but technically speaking yes it is easy, and the sooner you do it the better.

@Cherryblossom10 and I've been in a relationship so abusive on every level, violent, and cruel, it was a fucking horror movie that most people couldn't dream up. I literally have had Stockholm syndrome. So I have an idea of how you're feeling. And trust me as someone who's been there and been in worse situations than that...just fuck him. He isn't going to change. 🫂

@OldMan70 is he being sarcastic

@SW-User well yes and he has a big dick on top of that :(

@Cherryblossom10 How big?

@NativePortlander1970 Why not?

@deadgerbil my boyfriend only ever wants to end the call when I say something he doesn’t like ,!, which makes me feel like I have to please him all the time

@Cherryblossom10 I was interested in some insight into what you're actually saying to him that he doesn't like, not you repeating your vague post

But in any case, if this relationship can't be repaired, it's time to move on

@PeachyK jeez your scaring me but your right

@Cherryblossom10 sorry. I dont mean to scare but i speak from experience.

@Husher what do I do about it

@Cherryblossom10 do nothing about it.

@Cherryblossom10 he is not talking so he can hurt you over long distance and is talking to others, you don't want to find out later so end it now. You have your priorities.

He wants to bring you back so run away

@NativePortlander1970 I’ll try ..

@Cherryblossom10 You need to, before he escalates as @Jenny1234 fears.