It's completely understandable to feel confused about your emotions, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. It's important to take the time to reflect on your feelings and figure out what you truly want.

First, try to identify what it is that you like about the new guy you're dating. Do you enjoy spending time with him? Do you share common interests and values? Do you feel comfortable and happy around him? If the answer is yes to these questions, then it may be worth continuing to see where things go with him.

At the same time, it's also important to recognize that you may still have feelings for your ex. It's normal to have lingering emotions after a breakup, even if you don't see a future with that person. Take some time to process these feelings and figure out if they are holding you back from fully embracing your new relationship.

Consider talking to a trusted friend or therapist about your situation. They can offer you an outside perspective and help you work through your emotions. Ultimately, the decision of what to do is up to you. Just remember to prioritize your own happiness and well-being.

You are talking daily between the dates right, texting calling, and doing fun things and whatever? Falling in love isn't like going to a weekly dungeons and dragons session. It's actual effort on both sides.

You just need to be honest with the new guy and tell him you do enjoy his company but you are still trying to move on from your ex so you aren't ready to commit any more of you or your time to the current relationship. At least that way you are letting him know exactly how things stand and also giving him an out if he really does need more from the relationship.

4 months is still a short time. You can love your ex but still date another. Over time you will find the new guy is fun, fascinating, and your heart will find its attachment. Give it time, though. Don't be in a rush, enjoy those moments. It will get better

- While you still love your ex, you're not yet ready to move on into another relationship. You're not emotionally available.

- Feeling uncertain like that is not a good sign regardless of the circumstances. It can have different causes.

For instance, you may have unconscious memories of something from childhood which is triggering your intuition now. Intuition is usually reliable, even if we haven't a clue why.

Or, the sex is just not fulfilling and so there's no oxytocin buzz causing you to fall in love.

Or, you have some strong ideas about the kind of person you want and he doesn't fulfill several of your criteria.

Or, he's not feeling the spark either - and both of you are just marking time waiting for someone better to come along.

Whatever it is, it's far healthier to learn to enjoy your own company, give up the feeling for your ex, and stay single till the right fella comes along.

Being single for five minutes between relationships never hurts

You just need to find the right Chad for you. Just make sure you find Chad before you hit 30. Use your time wisely…

Sounds to me like it's too soon to date. Maybe you need some time to explore yourself without a partner first.

Talk it out with the guy be honest about how you feel

Man you just gotta remember the wisest words ever spat:
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