Wtf why won’t my heart move on?

I’m dating this new guy since me and my ex broke up but I don’t know how I feel about this new guy. We’ve been going on dates like once a week or every other week for 2 months and I though I would know by now wether or not I liked him or not. I don’t wanna string him along but I think I like him but I’m not sure. I don’t know if it’s because I still love my ex. I can’t see myself having a future with my ex though but I do still love him and think about him all the time. I broke up with him 4 months ago. I’m so confused with what to do and what’s going on with my love life. What do I do?

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hartfire

- While you still love your ex, you're not yet ready to move on into another relationship. You're not emotionally available.

- Feeling uncertain like that is not a good sign regardless of the circumstances. It can have different causes.

For instance, you may have unconscious memories of something from childhood which is triggering your intuition now. Intuition is usually reliable, even if we haven't a clue why.

Or, the sex is just not fulfilling and so there's no oxytocin buzz causing you to fall in love.

Or, you have some strong ideas about the kind of person you want and he doesn't fulfill several of your criteria.

Or, he's not feeling the spark either - and both of you are just marking time waiting for someone better to come along.

Whatever it is, it's far healthier to learn to enjoy your own company, give up the feeling for your ex, and stay single till the right fella comes along.