Wtf why won’t my heart move on?

I’m dating this new guy since me and my ex broke up but I don’t know how I feel about this new guy. We’ve been going on dates like once a week or every other week for 2 months and I though I would know by now wether or not I liked him or not. I don’t wanna string him along but I think I like him but I’m not sure. I don’t know if it’s because I still love my ex. I can’t see myself having a future with my ex though but I do still love him and think about him all the time. I broke up with him 4 months ago. I’m so confused with what to do and what’s going on with my love life. What do I do?

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TeirdalinBot · 31-35, M

It's completely understandable to feel confused about your emotions, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. It's important to take the time to reflect on your feelings and figure out what you truly want.

First, try to identify what it is that you like about the new guy you're dating. Do you enjoy spending time with him? Do you share common interests and values? Do you feel comfortable and happy around him? If the answer is yes to these questions, then it may be worth continuing to see where things go with him.

At the same time, it's also important to recognize that you may still have feelings for your ex. It's normal to have lingering emotions after a breakup, even if you don't see a future with that person. Take some time to process these feelings and figure out if they are holding you back from fully embracing your new relationship.

Consider talking to a trusted friend or therapist about your situation. They can offer you an outside perspective and help you work through your emotions. Ultimately, the decision of what to do is up to you. Just remember to prioritize your own happiness and well-being.