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DunningKruger · 61-69, M
If she genuinely loved me, and was genuinely well-to-do, she could provide me with the resources needed in order to rise above being homeless and poor. I could move into her house, get cleaned up, have an address I could use for job applications, and I probably wouldn't be above taking a job at her profitable business.
For what reason would I remain homeless/poor/socially unacceptable if there were a successful woman who loved me anyway?
I could certainly understand her not wanting to share my past with her family and friends. I may well not want her to do that, either. And I might prefer to be introduced to her friends and family once I was able to get to a point where it wouldn't appear as if I were just sponging off of her.
And it also goes to why I'm homeless in the first place. A lot of homeless folks become homeless because they lose a job, or their car konks out on them and they lose their job, or what have you. It's a temporary situation for them, and they will struggle as best they can to improve their situation. In other cases, people become homeless because they have some sort of psychiatric disorder or substance abuse problem that interferes with their ability to take care of themselves.
The various potential factors make it a difficult question to answer.
For what reason would I remain homeless/poor/socially unacceptable if there were a successful woman who loved me anyway?
I could certainly understand her not wanting to share my past with her family and friends. I may well not want her to do that, either. And I might prefer to be introduced to her friends and family once I was able to get to a point where it wouldn't appear as if I were just sponging off of her.
And it also goes to why I'm homeless in the first place. A lot of homeless folks become homeless because they lose a job, or their car konks out on them and they lose their job, or what have you. It's a temporary situation for them, and they will struggle as best they can to improve their situation. In other cases, people become homeless because they have some sort of psychiatric disorder or substance abuse problem that interferes with their ability to take care of themselves.
The various potential factors make it a difficult question to answer.
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rrraksamam · 31-35, M
My first girlfriend came from a very rich family.
And yes, she lied.
I understood.
I knew her family would never accept someone like me.
My first online girlfriend - well, she never introduced me to anybody.
But, I think she might have had to lie as well. I don't know. I'm not sure.
She was pretty successful. Had a great career and all sorts of things going on for her.
I'm not sure if her family would've been cool with us being together.
But I think at some point people are going to find out anyway. At some point, you'll love each other so much, you'll become inseparable. And yeah, pretty much brave enough to face the whole world no matter what, because your love is so strong, that you can't imagine a life without them.
And yes, she lied.
I understood.
I knew her family would never accept someone like me.
My first online girlfriend - well, she never introduced me to anybody.
But, I think she might have had to lie as well. I don't know. I'm not sure.
She was pretty successful. Had a great career and all sorts of things going on for her.
I'm not sure if her family would've been cool with us being together.
But I think at some point people are going to find out anyway. At some point, you'll love each other so much, you'll become inseparable. And yeah, pretty much brave enough to face the whole world no matter what, because your love is so strong, that you can't imagine a life without them.
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
@rrraksamam I think some relationships are generally frowned upon in society, even today, with all the degeneracy going on. People can be petty.
Sometimes lying is the first choice because it's the easier route.
Sometimes lying is the first choice because it's the easier route.
Woofwoof15 · 22-25, F
@Nomad7 I know this scenario sounds terrible. The girl comes from a perfectionist family but gezz I feel terrible for the guy who's dealing with this
Nomad7 · 22-25, M
@Woofwoof15 It’ll be hard for him, but he’ll be fine after a few months. Nothing you can’t get over
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Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
If I’m homeless I’d only date her to get un-homeless. Otherwise she sounds like a complicated nightmare…
Woofwoof15 · 22-25, F
@Quetzalcoatlus but she's not giving you any money if she is it's for food, gas and nothing else
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
@Woofwoof15 Then I’d only use her for sex and squeeze any money I can out of her..
Woofwoof15 · 22-25, F
@Quetzalcoatlus yup this is the best solution
SatyrService · M
From what you said? She’s not really interested in you at all. Or if she is, it’s for some simple thing that she knows she can toss away
dale74 · M
Lets see she wont let you move in then ypu are still homeless just a street sex toy, and she is just using you for sex.
Notanymore · 36-40, M
Depends on how I feel about her. Probably ride it out honestly. If I had nothing, I've nothing to lose right?
LifeIsGoood · 26-30, F
Sounds like you’re the secret side-piece. At least you know.
Teslin · M
Bye bye
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Walk
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woof
Morrowind · 26-30, M
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