Men would you still date her?

Let's say you meet a beautiful successful woman who owns a profitable business. You're homeless/ poor and she still loves you despite your lack of income. Later you find out her mother is a dentist and her father owns a successful farm in Nigeria. She won't let you meet her family, won't let you meet her friends, she lies about everything about you. You want to move in together but she refuses because she doesn't want her family, friends, or people she works with to know that she's with you. For the most part everybody thinks she's still single. - what would you do?

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rrraksamam · 31-35, M

My first girlfriend came from a very rich family.
And yes, she lied.
I understood.
I knew her family would never accept someone like me.

My first online girlfriend - well, she never introduced me to anybody.
But, I think she might have had to lie as well. I don't know. I'm not sure.
She was pretty successful. Had a great career and all sorts of things going on for her.
I'm not sure if her family would've been cool with us being together.

But I think at some point people are going to find out anyway. At some point, you'll love each other so much, you'll become inseparable. And yeah, pretty much brave enough to face the whole world no matter what, because your love is so strong, that you can't imagine a life without them.

rrraksamam · 31-35, M

@rrraksamam I think some relationships are generally frowned upon in society, even today, with all the degeneracy going on. People can be petty.
Sometimes lying is the first choice because it's the easier route.