Yeah, I'm sad again. I got rejected from a tinder guy I was talking to for three weeks!

I don't think you should be sad. I could understand disappointment though. With what was said here already, it sounds like he did you a favor....imho.
I don't think it's necessarily bad that you're "too bold" either. Two people regardless of how long they've known each other should be able to negotiate how to conversation one way or another even if one does not want to answer completely at least they can be honest and say I'm not ready to answer that. I hope you shirk this off and move forward in a positive frame of mind. 🙂🙏🏻👍🏻

He did you a favor. Anybody that says some corny crap like, push forward with a relationship, sounds like one of those corporate people who's a workaholic and probably pretty dull.

I am sorry this happened to you. I remember I loved someone and had feelings for someone for 7 and half years. We used to talk on phone, video call, were in touch on skype, fb and text message. We were about to meet but she blocked and left me without saying a word. No explanations! People are heartless on the internet and real world too

I thought Tinder was supposed to be for fast and casual hook-ups. Maybe you've been using the wrong site.

I know of a female writer who used Tinder to write a book entitled "40 Hook-Ups in 40 Days". She claimed it sold 10's of thousands of copies to soldiers in the Middle East within the first month.
She was in my writers group, 45ish, voluptuous figure, push-up bra with cleavage on show, brightly dyed orange and maroon hair, purple and orange clothing with loads of nylon lace and stretch crushed velvet, high heels, huge calf muscles, clotted-blood-coloured lipstick and thick eyeliner and mascara.
Apparently her image must have attracted a lot of takers.

I have a neighbour who uses E-Harmony which claims it aims to help people who are sincere about wanting a romance or serious partnership. She found it tricky to tell who was scamming and who not - but said the site had good guidelines for caution and security.

Why was the fool wasting your time then?
I want to hit him with a brick.
I'm sorry.

I’m convinced that the average Tinder user isn’t looking for a relationship but hookups . And I’m sorry it happened to you.

i wouldn't put all your stock in tinder, it's simply just a casual sex app.

That feeling of rejection is very painful. Dating aps are very hit and miss. I hope you remember that you are worth far more than someone who is only looking for a quick hook up, and not a relationship.

I met a woman online and we hit it off and then she started talking to me about another guy shes talking too. She sees me as a friend and it sucks. Dating sucks.

It happens

i am confused 🤔

what did you ask? O.O

He maybe met someone else.
Sounds fickle after 3 weeks or he’s avoidant?

This is probably a blessing in disguise
Silken is right

Hey, it sounds like you made it farther than I usually do with my matches online.

Aren't all tinder dates awful anyway?

He didn’t deserve you

Join the club, although atleast you were able to communicate with this guy under normal circumstances.

You were being pushy when he was just getting to know you?

Men absolutely hate ultimatums, usually they'll do the opposite

Seriously? On Tinder? Fucking hookup central, and he's like this?