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Taken in Hand?? How dose it differ from a "normal" relationship?

Has anyone ever heard of this concept?? Im interested.... what do you know about it? How do you go about it?

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Patientlywaiting · 46-50, FVIP

I have a taken in hand marriage. It's different for everyone just like any "normal" (whatever that looks like) marriage is. This kind of marriage is always consensual. There's always a power exchange. There's always lots of discussion around what each partner wants. There's usually physical discipline (although there doesn't have to be) and it can be as much or as little as you want but it is always consensual. We take the parts that suit us best. Have a look at "A domestic discipline society" and "How to be a submissive wife" online.

MizzO · 31-35, F

@Patientlywaiting did you guys both know that thats what you wanted?

Patientlywaiting · 46-50, FVIP

@MizzO no but he's naturally dominant and I am submissive so it suits us.

BohemianBoo · M

My parents have a marriage like that. It's basically Domestic Discipline.

Thevy29 · 41-45, M

I think it means to guide and mentor someone...

MizzO · 31-35, F

@Thevy29 Ive recently read some stuff about it in terms of relationships and the concept was....appealing

Lostlostlost · 51-55, M

Means to take control

MizzO · 31-35, F

@Lostlostlost in terms of a relationship?

Lostlostlost · 51-55, M

@MizzO yes it can be

Lostlostlost · 51-55, M

Taken to the extreme it could be a bdsm relationship

SomeMichGuy · M

Ask whoever used it.

MizzO · 31-35, F

@SomeMichGuy i dont know anyone personally. Just read a few articles

SomeMichGuy · M

@MizzO Then an old expression is being retooled.

The place where you found them and the articles probably tell a lot.

I'm out.

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