Shitty human relationships, why even getting involved in them if they end up so badly

@MartinTheFirst you are entitled to your opinion

@Eternity that's debatable....
That they like freedom over safety, if it was like that everyone would want open relationships and things like those, and nope, that's not the norm either....

@SW-User but then why do people stray?

What people want more than anything is to be able to have their cake and eat it too.

Of course people want some degree of safety, but they also want to do what they really want to do.

That is why people cheat in secret while staying in 'committed' relationships. So they can have both.

But the fact that they are willing to risk their sure thing for a thrill is proof enough that they value freedom over safety.

Honestly, the fact that humanity ever left the caves is proof enough that we value freedom over safety.

@Oneofthestormboys I've always felt safer with animals yeah, you don't end up hurting others or yourself either with them..

@SW-User trying to be gender neutral

@SatyrService yeah but still sounded funny, but it's usually true, attraction can be deceiving yeah

@SW-User as a normative cis gender hetro male, I am trying so HARD to be equally opportunistic about idiots.

but guys ARE the worst

@Sweetpoison uncomfortable ones.......

@Northwest I don't think one should try

@SW-User If you try you would have a 50/50 shot at succeeding. If you don't try, then you have come to term with a life without romantic companionship, which may be fine for some people, but I don't think this is your goal in life. You're frustrated, because something may have gone wrong with your relationship, souring you on relationships in general. Give it time, and perhaps distance...

@Northwest well I don't think much about things like those cause I care more about other things now, my family.
So yeah.

@WhateverWorks true, there are nice lovely people and connections others end up being shitty

@DunningKruger most seem to turn bad and only few are good.. But I guess you're right. Gotta test them

@SW-User And hope seldom springs as eternally as it does at the beginning of a relationship, when the world is nothing but possibilities.

@AllelujahHaptism lots are awful and create lots of turmoil in us

@SW-User it sucks

@MrGomco
It's not about expectations simply, it's about living life and finding shitty people.
You simply get to know them and then realize, one is rather neutral when one's knows a person wary even, so nope. It's tiresome that people use it as the explanation for everything

@SkeetSkeet true or appear exactly the opposite of what they truly are

@uncalled4 yeah haha but if I had known they would end up like they ended up I wonder if I still would have wanted them. Maybe very few ones.. For the experience

@SW-User Big question. I'd have to say yes, because all of that led to who I'm with now.

@MartinTheFirst what hehe I was thinking about varios things of my life when I wrote this and well saw another girls post, and that made me think this thing

@iamonfire696 yes right?! Better than to stick to the ones we already know that have proved to be authentic

@SW-User I agree with this. And even when they have proved to be authentic to you someone else will come in and tell you this person did this to me.

It’s just frustrating and I am over it. I want to have my circle and tell everyone else just to F off 🙃

@Jungleman but your response was rude.

@Jungleman you seem quite angry and bitter if it's like that..... Mm 🤔. Certainly, I'm glad I'm not anywhere close to you

@SatyrService just a projection of the kind of people I'm glad that aren't in my life 😀

@Ontheroad ah please nobody mentioned a Mr perfect, that doesn't make the reality any better . I hate when people assume stupid things like those. As if one couldn't even express oneself? As if one has to be all happy? Just think before if your replies.

"rose gardens". 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 You know nothing at all about me to tell me something so patronizing like that