What did an ex-partner say or do that made you stop loving them?
For me, it's the realization that he will never change. Lies after lies.
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acupaday · 46-50, F
He revealed that the person he referred to as his ex-girlfriend was in fact his current girlfriend. His fiancé actually. And naturally he didn’t share that truth until he had gotten what he wanted from me. I’ll admit that it took a long time to fall out of love with him even after experiencing that kind of hurt. Still have love for the moron actually because he was sort of a big chapter in my life. But I hold onto the lessons way more than the innate care I have for him.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@SW-User I know exactly how this feels. Hugssss…Such losers only need a vagina…it doesn’t matter whom it’s attached to.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
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When I was young I had a partner I dated who was too old for me to begin with(I was 16, he was 23, dated for 2 years) after doing stuff to me I didn't consent to he texted me the next morning to let me know I was "pretty ugly". I was torn.
Other times I've gotten involved with drug abusers. They're hard to want to be with long term.
Other times I've gotten involved with drug abusers. They're hard to want to be with long term.
Menetics · 26-30, F
@SW-User Surround yourself with people who are healthy for you. We sometimes think we can save them but most of the time they’ll just ruin us and waste our time. If someone truly loves you, they’ll change their bad habits for you.
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Menetics · 26-30, F
@BluntSm0ker what about it?
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@HootyTheNightOwl yeah I understand, it’s hard to figure them out sometimes.
narcissists do self project guilt. Blame you, blame anyone for their bad behaviour but them.
narcissists do self project guilt. Blame you, blame anyone for their bad behaviour but them.
AstroZombie · 36-40, M
I stopped loving her after she admitted she'd been leading me on for the whole time we were together. She was using me to move out of her parents under the guise of being in a relationship with me. Told people she was single but told me she loved me. Cheated on me with the guy who introduced us. And then left me for him.
Neoerectus · M
DaughteroftheMoon · 26-30, F
Montanaman · M
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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@BeefySenpie I am sorry. I can understand this well.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
Well if that happened then she wouldn't be my significant other 😅
Menetics · 26-30, F
@ChiefJustWalks You’re right. I’ll change that right now.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@Menetics oh my dumbass was over here thinking you were currently in a loveless relationship 😅 I was like aw 🥹
Well lemme re-answer then 😅 with the last person I loved, I fell out of it after it was already over. I had to realize that we simply weren't right for each other & I still had a lot of growing up to do
Well lemme re-answer then 😅 with the last person I loved, I fell out of it after it was already over. I had to realize that we simply weren't right for each other & I still had a lot of growing up to do
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
So sorry to know about that.
exchrist · 31-35
Not possible she knows that
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
She said, months into trying everything I could, after the most lovingly heartfelt letter I ever wrote another human being: "I have told you several times that I'm done and want out. I hope that this time you hear me."
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Which one ?
Lilnonames · F
