What did an ex-partner say or do that made you stop loving them?

For me, it's the realization that he will never change. Lies after lies.

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SW-User

When I was young I had a partner I dated who was too old for me to begin with(I was 16, he was 23, dated for 2 years) after doing stuff to me I didn't consent to he texted me the next morning to let me know I was "pretty ugly". I was torn.

Other times I've gotten involved with drug abusers. They're hard to want to be with long term.

Menetics · 26-30, F

@SW-User Addicts overall are hard to deal with. You can never change them.

SW-User

@Menetics Yeah and then they make excuses or refuse help so it makes it harder esp when you just want to see them get better. For some reason I attract those types.

Menetics · 26-30, F

@SW-User Surround yourself with people who are healthy for you. We sometimes think we can save them but most of the time they’ll just ruin us and waste our time. If someone truly loves you, they’ll change their bad habits for you.