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Boyfriend ended things through a text message?

My boyfriend ended things with me through a text message then when I tried calling him, he said he will call me tomorrow I’m going to sleep in which he never did call me the next day. Just 2 days before he was telling me he misses and can’t wait to see me. All the while my mum was about to have cancer removal surgery just a few days later and he knew I was worried about my mum and he still ends up being so cruel to me. I’m really struggling with this and I just feel so hurt. How do I get through this?
gdon39 · 46-50, M
Hey summerlove, I’m gary. I’m a good listener so Hmu anytime.

Unfortunately I don’t have a single positive thing whatsoever when it comes to guys who lie, string their partners along and my personal favorite is the douche bag guy who doesn’t have the balls to break up with you himself, he just becomes even less involved and wants you to break up so he doesn’t have to be a man.

In general unless a guy is a smart guy, raised by strong women who teach them how to become a proper gentleman.

He guys who don’t have that don’t grow up until their mid to late 30’s.

I’m not wrong. I’m guessing that wasn’t helpful but if you want send me a dm whenever you want. 💃🕺
dale74 · M
@gdon39 as another man I agree with everything you just said
plungesponge · 41-45, M
Yep, happened to me once too.

The first thing to know is that decent people don't do that. So it says volumes about who he really is, far more than it has to do with you
summerlove · 31-35, F
@plungesponge Also he said he would meet up to talk about things and he went back on his word. It was his birthday recently too and I had birthday presents to give him and he just didn’t care. I was waiting to video call him for his birthday because he was away for work. I was waiting for over 1 hour with my cupcake and candle for him to sing happy birthday to him and he’s like I’m having dinner with workmates can we chat later? He’s honestly put a whole in my heart and I don’t know how to get through the hurt he caused me.
ABCDEF7 · M
I don't think he was a very decent guy before, and just turned like that in a second. This is a lesson for you about what to look in people before making relationship with them. Consider this as a lesson and look forward to things in your life.

Wishing all the best to your mom for the surgery. I hope she will have faster recovery.
4meAndyou · F
You poor kid. Jerks like your former boyfriend have the sensitivity of a pair of jack boots. People like him don't even think about other people because their heads are so far up their own a$$.

It's horrible when you inadvertently allow a stinking narcissist into your life. People like him aren't cruel intentionally...(maybe)...they just aren't aware of anything except their penis and their stomach and their OWN needs. Girlfriends and former girlfriends are less than zero in order of importance.

He has probably met someone else and that is why he broke up with you. And then when the new one breaks up with HIM he will probably try to call YOU again, so you can resume being used like a tissue.

The best way to get over this creep is to go out and meet new people and forget all about him.
Jake966 · 56-60, M
He is a coward and doesn’t deserve you
dale74 · M
First off he's asleep bag and he's not a man he's just a little boy.
First off a man would never break up with a text message.
Second of all if he was a man and told you he would call you the next day he should have followed through.
Third you are definitely better off without someone like that.
Miram · 31-35, F
He was sleeping with someone else. No one is that busy.

He really is fukin someone else.
summerlove · 31-35, F
@Miram He has hurt me so much.
Miram · 31-35, F
@summerlove don't give him another chance ever. He is cheater, he do it again and again.

There are lot horrible people in this world but also good ones that dont lie. You will heal and you will be loved one day because you're loving
Ontheroad · M
@Miram Yeah, I tend to agree with you - that is a classic cheater move.
ShadowWolf · 31-35, M
Ending a relationship through text message is cowardly and disrespectful. You should look at that as very telling of his character.
Tres13 · 51-55, M
Support your mum

Fuck him
summerlove · 31-35, F
@Tres13 I am supporting her.
Tres13 · 51-55, M
meggie · F
He knows your mum will come first and get the attention too. So could be his way of making you chase after him and make a fuss of him. You are well rid of him.
You move on. Break ups, quitting jobs and other such major life happenings won't care about your schedule for fitting them in.
Generally speaking.....single (and sometimes married/cheating) guys are manhoes.
I had an ex boyfriend do this once, then he blocked me when I tried to ask him why
SW-User
just wow… very cowardly of him
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
Shoot him in the gut. It takes longer to bleed out then.
dale74 · M
@basilfawlty89 he's a 45 shoot him in the leg if he survives he'll at least be missing a leg.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Forget him and find new peen
empanadas · 31-35, M
Some people are just cruel
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