He messaged me about how they had to extract fluid because of internal bleeding and how he was in pain but I felt nothing for him. Absolutely nothing. Earlier I'd have been worried and anxious but this time NOTHING @BiasForAction

So it's ok to have felt NOTHING? Does not make me heartless? @BiasForAction

@solitaire it’s ok to move on

@SW-User You are probably right. Hasn't been in a committed relationship for more than 30 years since his wife passed away. Donned a lot of attention on me last year when he had a lot of free time on his hands and I fell flat for it. Goes to show you that the Internet is the last place to trust anyone!

@solitaire true that people online can be really fake

@SW-User I've known him since 2015, on and off. Also I'm not claiming to be perfect. The reason I'm finding it difficult to let this go is because I pictured a future with this person. You know something - I had a bad gut feeling last year when he reestablished contact with me. I should have stuck to it and I should have kept my distance!!

@WhateverWorks Did the message sound like I wanted to cut him loose? All I wanted was for him to call me and it's frustrating for me

It sounded like you passive aggressively letting them know you are frustrated @solitaire

@WhateverWorks yeah

@SW-User We are from two different countries

@solitaire Yeah,just be careful he doesn't start swindling you out of money claiming hospital bills or whatever. But don't drag this on too long. If it's over end it

@SW-User Oh no. He's in London and free treatment etc. The situation has been out of my control for a while now and it's upto him. I pinned my future hopes on a hopeless situation. Giving him time till the end of this month to contact me or else I'll presume that he isn't going to contact me anymore