Does this sound rude? A message I sent someone

"Fine then call me when you're phone is fixed. I'm sick of this uncertainty". To which the person replied "Good Moaning!" and I haven't heard from him since.
Communication has been almost nil between us since October - he's had health issues and a network problem, and I've been as patient as I can!!

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WhateverWorks · 36-40

Yes, it does sound rude, but that’s not to say your frustration isn’t warranted or t that you shouldn’t draw boundaries/cut them loose.

solitaire · 41-45, F

I'm very very lonely and it's difficult to let go of this person but it looks like the situation is out of my control

WhateverWorks · 36-40

Yes, it’s true that our boundaries can’t control other people, they can only protect ourselves from greater harm and create an environment in our life where when good people do come around there is space for them 💜@solitaire

solitaire · 41-45, F

@WhateverWorks Did the message sound like I wanted to cut him loose? All I wanted was for him to call me and it's frustrating for me

WhateverWorks · 36-40

It sounded like you passive aggressively letting them know you are frustrated @solitaire

solitaire · 41-45, F

@WhateverWorks yeah