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Does this sound rude? A message I sent someone

"Fine then call me when you're phone is fixed. I'm sick of this uncertainty". To which the person replied "Good Moaning!" and I haven't heard from him since.
Communication has been almost nil between us since October - he's had health issues and a network problem, and I've been as patient as I can!!

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BiasForAction · M

I’m going to go out on a limb here and suggest it’s over

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solitaire · 41-45, F

He messaged me about how they had to extract fluid because of internal bleeding and how he was in pain but I felt nothing for him. Absolutely nothing. Earlier I'd have been worried and anxious but this time NOTHING @BiasForAction

solitaire · 41-45, F

So it's ok to have felt NOTHING? Does not make me heartless? @BiasForAction

BiasForAction · M

@solitaire it’s ok to move on

SW-User

Not if you haven't heard from him since Oct sounds like he's making excuses

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solitaire · 41-45, F

@SW-User You are probably right. Hasn't been in a committed relationship for more than 30 years since his wife passed away. Donned a lot of attention on me last year when he had a lot of free time on his hands and I fell flat for it. Goes to show you that the Internet is the last place to trust anyone!

SW-User

@solitaire true that people online can be really fake

solitaire · 41-45, F

@SW-User I've known him since 2015, on and off. Also I'm not claiming to be perfect. The reason I'm finding it difficult to let this go is because I pictured a future with this person. You know something - I had a bad gut feeling last year when he reestablished contact with me. I should have stuck to it and I should have kept my distance!!

WhateverWorks · 36-40

Yes, it does sound rude, but that’s not to say your frustration isn’t warranted or t that you shouldn’t draw boundaries/cut them loose.

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solitaire · 41-45, F

@WhateverWorks Did the message sound like I wanted to cut him loose? All I wanted was for him to call me and it's frustrating for me

WhateverWorks · 36-40

It sounded like you passive aggressively letting them know you are frustrated @solitaire

solitaire · 41-45, F

@WhateverWorks yeah

MoonlightLullaby

Not to me, it doesn't. I've had a similar experience.
Time to let that bird fly....

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SW-User

Good moaning. Lmao! Well if he's in hospital visit him but if you no longer feel anything for him let him know so yall can go your separate ways

solitaire · 41-45, F

@SW-User We are from two different countries

SW-User

@solitaire Yeah,just be careful he doesn't start swindling you out of money claiming hospital bills or whatever. But don't drag this on too long. If it's over end it

solitaire · 41-45, F

@SW-User Oh no. He's in London and free treatment etc. The situation has been out of my control for a while now and it's upto him. I pinned my future hopes on a hopeless situation. Giving him time till the end of this month to contact me or else I'll presume that he isn't going to contact me anymore

Fluffybull · F

Move on, it's over.

polygonmatic32 · 31-35, M

I think its time you let go of this person

Lilnonames · F

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