Does this sound rude? A message I sent someone

"Fine then call me when you're phone is fixed. I'm sick of this uncertainty". To which the person replied "Good Moaning!" and I haven't heard from him since.
Communication has been almost nil between us since October - he's had health issues and a network problem, and I've been as patient as I can!!

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BiasForAction · M

I’m going to go out on a limb here and suggest it’s over

solitaire · 41-45, F

I thought so and became dead emotionally in December when he resurfaced in Jan to wish me on my birthday and told me about his being admitted in the hospital, having network issues etc. I was not able to empathise with him this time at all. Makes me wonder whether I'm heartless. I'm someone who can love a person to bits or they can be dead to me completely @BiasForAction

BiasForAction · M

@solitaire sometimes you gotta move on

solitaire · 41-45, F

He messaged me about how they had to extract fluid because of internal bleeding and how he was in pain but I felt nothing for him. Absolutely nothing. Earlier I'd have been worried and anxious but this time NOTHING @BiasForAction

solitaire · 41-45, F

So it's ok to have felt NOTHING? Does not make me heartless? @BiasForAction

BiasForAction · M

@solitaire it’s ok to move on