Can You Forgive Someone Without Ever Talking To Them Again?
Can you forgive on your own instead of with that person? How do you forgive?
22-25, M
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TinyViolins · 31-35, M
For me, it's understanding that people came into your life and wanted you to be a part of theirs for a reason. Even if things fizzled out or ended badly, it's not because they wanted to hurt you. It's because they're human.
People are designed to use mental shortcuts to arrive at quick conclusions and that makes them biased, irrational, and prone to mistakes. You don't have to condone their actions to forgive them for their innate stupidity and warped perspectives.
You just have to concede that you were no longer right for each other and to move on. Dwelling in the past isn't going to change anything
People are designed to use mental shortcuts to arrive at quick conclusions and that makes them biased, irrational, and prone to mistakes. You don't have to condone their actions to forgive them for their innate stupidity and warped perspectives.
You just have to concede that you were no longer right for each other and to move on. Dwelling in the past isn't going to change anything