Update: I broke up with him

We are taking a week break apart. Not even talking, and from there we are going to try to salvage a friendship. I do think he is a cool individual, but we were not right in a relationship together. I'm glad I gave it a good amount of time to come to this decision (3 months). Not staying in it too long, like I usually do. We also paid for a vacation to Hawaii while we were still together. We are still going to go in December because that's a lot of money to waste otherwise. We'll see what happens.