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I'm planning on breaking up with my boyfriend tell me if this line is okay and gives a friendly tone okay?

I think you're a handsome and sweet guy but I just feel and realized I'm not the right woman for you. However, I know that you will find the perfect woman for you soon.

I want to break up but keep a friendly vibe between us.
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
Don’t play the friend card…. It’s a mistake every woman makes when breaking up… and it makes it worse… make it a clean wound
Fluffybull · F
@Spokeskitties75 Agree.👏👏
So it’s basically a “ it’s not you, it’s me…” breakup line😂
We all know that means “dude, I’m just not into you…”😅

Just be honest and tell him exactly why it’s not going to work out. I know I would appreciate that more than just some BS reason😊
Fluffybull · F
@Haniazed 👌👍
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Or…I don’t see myself being happy for the next 50-60 years. You’re not my forever person but I will look back fondly of my time with you.
redredred · M
You can’t keep it friendly. You’re dumping him. That hurts. Think of surgery w/o anesthesia; quick and clean is best.
SW-User
Me breaking up for that reason you stated in the comments “ I’m leaving you because you suck and you don’t know what you want “, you’re just too kind. I’m glad you don’t settle for less , and you should tell him exactly why you leaving him.
Has he done something to make you feel that way?
Oh wow, he’s out there doing that and you’re trying to be gentle with his feelings? Such a kind soul you seem to have. @StormyChan
Elessar · 26-30, M
@AnonymouslyYours I wouldn't say it's being gentle, at most evasive. What would you prefer, being left and knowing the reason, or being left and not even being told why?

The honest approach would benefit both here, imo
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@StormyChan tell him that’s why then
Jeremi · 41-45, M
THAT'S how you do it! THAT'S how you break up with someone. it's formal, to the point, decent. mature. I would love to be broken up with like that, whether I was right or wrong. 👊
TexChik · F
Don’t sugar coat it . Just tell him the truth . He is going to be hurt and angry either way but he will appreciate the complete honesty after he calms down .
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
Nah don’t do the not worthy thing. Be honest…why are you breaking up?
StormyChan · 31-35, F
@DownTheStreet He keeps calling other women beautiful😬
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
Oh. Okay. @StormyChan
smiler2012 · 56-60
@StormyChan basically it is a hard pill to swallow for your partner but those are kind words and he may find comfort in them
Fluffybull · F
Just say you don't want to go out with him any more. This "staying friends" is *ra*, basically.
emptysoul44 · 41-45, M
it's OK if you mean that you still want to have sex sometimes.
Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M
It's okay if it's the truth. Sometimes it's good to be honest.
SW-User
Just be brutally honest. It's better for both of you that way. Breakups are never fun but it's better to just say why and be up front about it.
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StormyChan · 31-35, F
@BluntSm0ker 🤣😂

 
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