SinlessOnslaught · M
I know my limits, and I try to keep true to them. @SinlessOnslaught
SinlessOnslaught · M
@soulrespite It’s good to have boundaries.
OogieBoogie · F
Its empowering ....to a point.
Its akin to 'going numb'....its blissful.... in the beginning.
- a well needed seclusion of peace and simplification.
Its definitely a step in a process that must be gone thru.
But having come out the other side, as much as a hermit that i am, i realsied that we are social creatures....however unfortunate 😏
And that definition is definitely on a spectrum.
- Some people recharge by being social
- Some people recharge by being alone
....but either way, connection to people in some degree is essential.
If only for perspective and reflection on ones self🤷♀
Its akin to 'going numb'....its blissful.... in the beginning.
- a well needed seclusion of peace and simplification.
Its definitely a step in a process that must be gone thru.
But having come out the other side, as much as a hermit that i am, i realsied that we are social creatures....however unfortunate 😏
And that definition is definitely on a spectrum.
- Some people recharge by being social
- Some people recharge by being alone
....but either way, connection to people in some degree is essential.
If only for perspective and reflection on ones self🤷♀
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OogieBoogie · F
@soulrespite oh...i assumed you weren't missing people.
I get that.
My idea of a good time is knowing I'm in my space, no one is coming to visit, and i have all this time to do whatever i want .
I assumed you've reached the point where you see being alone isn't loneliness....its solitide.
I get that.
My idea of a good time is knowing I'm in my space, no one is coming to visit, and i have all this time to do whatever i want .
I assumed you've reached the point where you see being alone isn't loneliness....its solitide.
I have always loved my own company and solitude.. To the point where it bothers ppl irl.
You seemed to be talking about how important connection and socializing is though? Or how you have changed your perspective on people and interactions over the years.
I am getting more selective of the company I keep and how available I am to people. I rather not be available, I have myself and my son to worry about. I know my limits and trust myself to hold my boundaries and my word. @OogieBoogie
You seemed to be talking about how important connection and socializing is though? Or how you have changed your perspective on people and interactions over the years.
I am getting more selective of the company I keep and how available I am to people. I rather not be available, I have myself and my son to worry about. I know my limits and trust myself to hold my boundaries and my word. @OogieBoogie
OogieBoogie · F
@soulrespite That's really a good place to get to.
And yeah, i was. But it was more alluding to balance.
And balance is personal to ourselves, and even where we are at, and what we require, or have the emergy
And yeah, i was. But it was more alluding to balance.
And balance is personal to ourselves, and even where we are at, and what we require, or have the emergy
Reject · 31-35, M
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
Expectation can make me uncomfortable too. I won’t give myself up like that to just anyone.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Everyone has their limits. @ScreamingFox
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@soulrespite and everyone needs a hand sometimes, I'm not gonna watch people fall, unless they already watched me fall
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F