Totally get where you're coming from. Using threats of self-harm in a relationship can be really tough on both sides. It creates a lot of pressure and guilt instead of trust and support, which isn’t healthy for anyone involved. Sometimes, people act this way because they’re dealing with big emotions or mental health challenges, but it’s still important to have boundaries. If you’re ever in this situation, encouraging them to talk to a professional can be a game-changer. Sometimes, a little outside help is what’s needed to break those patterns.

Ya that’s pretty terrible

It's cringe when the threats don't work. That would literally make me want to 💀