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I don't give no two fkks about your tradition.

Recently at a festival in Nigeria a large gang of men were seen on video grabbing women and assaulting them. I first saw the video of it on instagram.

The leader's excuses for it are appalling:

According to the community leader, young unmarried women are not supposed to come out at a certain time during the festival.

Asked why young girls were forbidden to come out, Berkeley said, “It’s an old tradition in Isoko land. In the olden days, young girls who are not married are not supposed to get pregnant; that means the family is going to be mocked. So, you don’t offer prayers to girls that are not married, but for women that are married, you can offer prayers for them to get pregnant.

https://www.channelstv.com/2026/03/23/ozoro-community-leader-condemns-festival-assaults-explains-tradition/

This is why men around the world do this is because of leaders who say this stuff. He attempts to low key victim blame the women saying that unmarried women shouldn't be out at a certain time because the festival isn't meant for them but to say prayers to married women.

This is all what tells me why these men did this. If you raise men in a culture that has views like this, they are being raised with entitlement so they believe they are okay to do this. And they're right, in a lot of cases the men might be arrested but they'll be let out. Arresting these people is more about damage control to international outrage than because they'll be held liable.

You only get these views that are pervasive from an overall culture that teaches people to do this.
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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
This is a organized religious issue though. Organized Religion attempts to control the society it's in.

You can even see this within the various sects of islam. How it controls varies from sect to sect.

In the USA it's currently white Christian supremacists overtly attempting the control.

Yet covert organized religious control always happens. Organized Religion simply must attempt to control no matter the methods.

This religious issue must be addressed in the constitution, even on the state and local levels. Not just on the congressional level.

Please note this president is using this fact on the executive branch. It doesn't apply to the president, nor even the supreme Court, nor to individual states.

Only "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion".
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SatanBurger · 36-40, F
@CrazyMusicLover It's not that it's that countries penalize women for fighting back. The video of the assaults at this festival had comments from people saying to make sure to carry a taser or mace. In a lot of countries it's illegal to have any form of weapon. A few women said they were assaulted by police for carrying mace too as laws are against it. So basically the govt weaponizes that and makes it hard. And in a lot of countries abuse and other things are still seen as more of a family issue so while they may be arrested for abuse in public, a lot of the laws are barely legal stuff which is how they get away with it. It just becomes acceptable at some point.

Basically, women's abuse is weaponized and further protected under the govt.

Also you would have to have the resources and heavy weapon power to take something like that on, which many females who are forced to marry super young just don't have, much less many older generations of women seem to accept much like America conservative women when they agree with their misogynistic male counter parts, despite them not benefitting from it at all.

To fight with something like that means basically risking death.

I agree with you, this isn't in disagreement exactly just that the odds are against women from right out the gate. They would almost have to be extremely brutal and have weapons, other resources to do that.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@SatanBurger No, I meant defending oneself in a lawless manner. Like real gangs, organized groups.

much like America conservative women when they agree with their misogynistic male counter parts

This is what I see as the main problem. Many women think "terrible but at least it didn't happen to me." and many will defend men for their own protection. There's no real sisterhood or a potential for a hierarchy in a group and has probably never been. Women rarely truly support each other, let alone at the cost of self-sacrifice and much more often will take the man's side to protect themselves.

To fight with something like that means basically risking death.

Of course.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
Not to mention, it implies that are only valued as baby machines.
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