What Are The Odds Of Finding "The One"?

I guess I think too much

What are the odds?

We meet thousands of people over the course of our life and a tiny percentage of those become people we love.
Often, many of those people we considered in the "loved" category, either let us down, show that they were not who we thought they were, or maybe we weren't for them, and we move on and the journey starts anew.
After meeting thousands upon thousands of people in our lives, we are supposed to settle on one person to live the rest of our lives with and give all of our love and trust too. We vow to do anything, including giving our lives, if necessary, to protect, honor and support them.

If you found the woman that has already distanced herself from the thousands you have met before her....and the many that actually became potential love interests, ask yourself and her a question...

Are you that one in a million woman for me?
With time the answer will become apparent.

So, when you look into the eyes of the "one" that has checked all of the boxes and earned your unending love...realize how unlikely the odds were that you would ever meet... and protect her love with every thought and act every single day...because she defied the odds

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M

You have a 1 in 10 million chance of finding just one person who is truly 'compatible' with you due to the 10-percent-rule of dating. Combined with the '666 rule' (which in 2025 terms is starting to become the '777 rule') things don't look good for love in modern times:

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This will help you understand why more than half of single men in so called 1st world countries now tend to give up on dating and relationships and prefer to go their own way in life staying single.

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Modern dating in the post Branch Covidian Cult times is largely defined by two key rules - the 666 Rule and the 10 Percent Rule.

Why does it seem that more and more so-called 'single' women have grossly unrealistic expectations of men and appear to apply the '666 Rule' in all their might-lead-to-romance-and-intimacy activities due to the gamification of dating by online dating sites/apps and dating/relationships becoming 'transactional' plus other factors like feminism and narcissistic princess tendencies?

For those who don't know, the 666 Rule is:

- man must be at least 6 ft (180 cm) tall,
- man must have an ultra-fit/toned 6-pack body shape,
- man must have a 6" (150 mm) or larger erect penis,
- man must have at least a 6-figure income.
- man must have traveled overseas at least 6 times and/or to at least 6 different countries.
- man must work less than 6 days a week and be always available at least 6 nights a week for s3x.

You can easily add to this:

- man must have a 6-figure bank balance,
- man must have a house worth at least 6 figures that you own outright (not owing any money to a bank).

etc.

You quickly see which almost every guy cannot meet this ridiculous set of 'standards' and becomes 'invisible' to almost all single women (and non-single women looking to cheat) who by default rate themselves as a '10' almost universally.

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Don't also forget the 10 Percent Rule. 8-) See below for explanation...

Online dating is exactly like applying for a job - the ten-percent rule applies... And with the ongoing Covid-19 p(l)andemic it adds another layer into the mix for 'vacci dating' preferences. So here is the modern version of 10 Percent Rule (for just a moment put aside the fact that a vast majority of dating site profiles are fakes):

- guy sends 10000000 introductory messages to 'women'
- 1000000 'women' might actually read them
- 100000 'women' might actually then go and explore the guy's profile
- 10000 are ok with the guy's covid vaccination status
- 1000 'women' might actually write back with a response
- 100 of those responses is positive showing genuine interest
- 10 of those women want to meet up for a date
- 1 date ends up becoming more.

So due to the Covid situation and the massively opposed views for and against the so-called 'vaccine' drugs for Covid-19 aka Sars-Cov-2, a guy has a 1 in 10 million (previously 1 in 1 million pre-covid) of actually finding 'the one'.

Pretty sad situation hey.

If we are 'switched on' to meeting people in real life (is that something that online dating is destroying?), the same basic thing applies.

It really is a 'lottery' with a '1 in 10 million' chance of discovering the 'right person'.