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Do you ever wonder if you are fundamentally unlikeable?

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Yes, I can make friends, then lose my best friends... And I want to ask why, but honestly at my age I've come to the conclusion you meet some who are open, even when some of at our ages it's just we become jaded and it's probably many people looking for meaning and they can still let you down
TinyViolins · 31-35, M
Not anymore. It took many years of finding myself, but once I realized who I was, it became a lot easier to accept that there were things about me that appealed to people. Everyone puts out their own kind of energy. Sometimes it's just a matter of finding people who vibe with your energy level.
No. Even if I felt disliked by a billion people, I'm not gonna let myself ruminate or "wonder"
I know how my nervous system operates. Introspection and self awareness is a fine line away from overthinking if you breathe too much life into the negative thoughts.
BabyDolls · 22-25, T
@HijabaDabbaDoo you are extremely likeable
@BabyDolls you're sweet🫶🏽
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
People must read something on my face because in recent years I noticed suspiciously frequent looks of distrust toward me from complete strangers. I guess I don't give out good energy. Which isn't all that surprising, after all.
thepeculiarpanda · 36-40, M
I've always just been really weird. People like me but don't really know how to approach me.
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
nearly everyday haha
it feels like there is something inherently off abt me that people notice and don’t like, both irl and online
Tarnished · 26-30, M
@poisonouscupcake If I didn't like you, I wouldn't ever talk to you. 👀 I don't deal with people I dislike at all. 😌
Wallflow3r · 31-35, F
Yes.. but I know it's just my negative thinking.
Acheron · 41-45, M
Have thought as much about myself ever since I was a kid. Never really seemed to play well with others.
itsok · 31-35, F
I have a feeling that if anyone knew me like I knew me, they wouldn’t like me. And that I’ve someone tricked people into liking me
MarineBob · 56-60, M
I know I am
BabyDolls · 22-25, T
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
I like me, but I have no doubt that to others I am unlikeable.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
I used to when I was younger.
I've always treated with respect and courtesy though, so I just decided in my 30s I don't give a fck about who dislikes me.
Most of the time I do ok. Once in a while, meh 🥴
ToLivePeacefully · 31-35, M
I never had that doubt but I pretty sure I'm quite forgettable.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
No. Im liked by people, sometimes a little too much.
Kiesel · 56-60, M
Sometimes yes
Rambler · 61-69, M
I admit the possibility but if so, then so be it
I am. Im ok with that.
lissah · 36-40, F
Dont really care
YoMomma ·
No a % of people still like me somewhat 😏
oldguy73 · 70-79, M
no, because i don't care
get outta my head.
JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
Fundamentally, no.

But it could be an emergent property.
bikelover · 56-60, M
That’s in no way shape or form you 😊😉
There isn't such a thing
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
People dont like lovely people 🥰
I’m very likable, I’m just unfuckable
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Musicman · 61-69, M

 
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