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I am officially old now, I guess

I fell last night. I was working with the wife out on the lawn next to the driveway (don't ask). I took a step and lost my balance. I did that running thing you do when you know you're going down but your body's still trying to prevent it, and went down onto the driveway. I caught myself with my hands, but wasn't able to stop my face from bouncing off the concrete.

For a moment, I was afraid that I had broken my left cheekbone, and maybe gave myself a concussion. After a few minutes, though, my face stopped hurting. However, the balls of my hands — the parts of the palms right under the thumbs — kept hurting. I had trouble picking anything up or putting any weight on my hands.

The wife gave me a spritz of lidocaine on my palms and a couple ice packs, one for each hand. It's the next day, and my hands still hurt — not like they're broken hurt, just that they're badly bruised or sprained level of hurt.

The past year or two has been bad for me, compared to what came before. Osteoarthritis in my hands causing pain and problems. The thing with my hips that kept me from walking without pain for months — I'm still only about 90 percent over that, and there's still enough pain that walking or even just standing is hard. Now this.

I'm fortunate compared to a lot of people. The pain hasn't been permanently debilitating, and my injuries such as they were were minor. It's not like I had any sort of major bone break or severe injury. So, I'm grateful for that. But it still hurts, and it's still building up.

Aging is not for the weak.
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enjoyingitnow · 61-69, M
I know the feeling hitting sixty five last Nov was a wake up call I had torn a rotator cuff while tripping over an air hose trying to get a blazing propane bottle out of my garage. Dropped by a kid that works for me part time. I heard the flame go to just before something bad was going to happen he dropped it near other bottles that were the bbq size what’s that ten gallons.

Any way I landed on my elbows as I was running out of shop I managed to get to my feet but when I threw the small bottle I felt this pain that was the worst I have endured and I have broken hands dislocated my shoulder twice thank his it was the other one lol but I am still not a hundred percent and it will be a year coming may.

My wife pretty much gave me the slap in the face that I needed I was in denial about my diminishing physical skills and would have to learn to do things differently mainly asking for help but that was the hard thing about this. I have worked solo for most of my working time so and I am sure there are others like me. Us baby boomers are cut from a different cloth there is no quit in us or as my wife says stubborn as all get out lol. Now it is easier to ask for help and not feel pity on oneself and except the help my wife a very wise gal said just look at it in the way that I earned to take it easy some and most of all take it easy on myself Sorry for being long winded but just wanted to say what helped me get over the physiological bruising
Kstrong · 56-60, F
@enjoyingitnow with aging comes the lack of agility and strength... Some people are denied that privilege to grow old... As both my parents died young. Had the 29th anniversary of my father's death 3 days ago.... Mom's been gone 14 years... Cancer, the equal opportunity disease, shows no partially and has no favourites
enjoyingitnow · 61-69, M
@Kstrong yes I am with you loss of parents is life changing I lost my mother almost twenty years ago and my father past twelve years ago
Losing my mother was really bad for
Me because I got cynical about everything she had cancer but doctors told us we
Would have a year of quality time with her so while visiting her in the hospital we would talk about where she wanted to go different places to watch the sunset we are in the west coast USA and we lost her two weeks later the doctors were not even close. I hated them with all the passion I could muster. Glad I got out of that hole I realized the deeper you go the darker it gets

When my dad past the first thing that came to mind was that I would never answer to the word son again I miss them. Both dearly but life will move on and time heals wound old sayings yes but they help keep it real in the present