Another reason I don't do well with monogamy is, be it traditional monogamy or new age monogamy, I don't need anything that comes with it.
In traditional/traditional leaning monogamy the man focuses on making money and the woman does most if not all of the house stuff. This is loosely like the relationship I was just in. When I was working normal hours we would split the chores; I would do all the meal prep/cooking and clean the kitchen and she did the laundry and cleaned the rest of the apartment. We split expenses in a way that was proportionate with how much we each earned (I earned more).
If I was working 7 days a week she would do all the chores and cooking while I did my best to clean up after myself and I'd just pay for most everything.
The thing is, easier though it was on me, easy and worth it are two different things. I had and have no problems tending to all my own domestic needs as a bachelor even when I am working 7 days a week; I had developed methods and systems that allow me to meal prep and clean even when I work every day.
Sex on demand? Yes that was nice but honestly I am apt enough at getting sex that I dont need to employ someone to fill that position constantly. When I need ass so bad that it becomes an issue I clean myself up and go out and get some 🤷🏽♂️. And honestly the "hunt" adds to the thrill and makes for more exciting sex than domestic sex tbh. Especially when you happen upon a freaky one 🥴.
The emotional support side of it...be it good or be it bad I just don't really need a whole lot of that honestly. I am good at being alone. I think something in me was rubbed raw when I was young due to the emotional conditions I was raised in. I just don't feel the need for constant closeness and emotional intimacy and when I do feel I need it I just go take a trip to see my family or friends and I'm good.
Kids? I dont want any. This nation as it currently stands deserves not to be perpetuated. Maybe in better times and/or better places.
As for new age monogamy...my balls are too good at producing testosterone for that.
If I was working 7 days a week she would do all the chores and cooking while I did my best to clean up after myself and I'd just pay for most everything.
The thing is, easier though it was on me, easy and worth it are two different things. I had and have no problems tending to all my own domestic needs as a bachelor even when I am working 7 days a week; I had developed methods and systems that allow me to meal prep and clean even when I work every day.
Sex on demand? Yes that was nice but honestly I am apt enough at getting sex that I dont need to employ someone to fill that position constantly. When I need ass so bad that it becomes an issue I clean myself up and go out and get some 🤷🏽♂️. And honestly the "hunt" adds to the thrill and makes for more exciting sex than domestic sex tbh. Especially when you happen upon a freaky one 🥴.
The emotional support side of it...be it good or be it bad I just don't really need a whole lot of that honestly. I am good at being alone. I think something in me was rubbed raw when I was young due to the emotional conditions I was raised in. I just don't feel the need for constant closeness and emotional intimacy and when I do feel I need it I just go take a trip to see my family or friends and I'm good.
Kids? I dont want any. This nation as it currently stands deserves not to be perpetuated. Maybe in better times and/or better places.
As for new age monogamy...my balls are too good at producing testosterone for that.
