If I get offended I understand its my fault..

But is there a way for me not to get offended, that would be so much easier

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Grow a thick skin. I didn't think I could until I started doing these things: not take things personally and don't let others get to you. Remember everyone eventually gets rejected. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on. Don't focus on yourself too much or you'll dwell on your shortcomings. Stop the self-talk, you can be your own worst enemy. Learn to be patient. Don't be quick to blame. Think about others. You come out the other end a better person, you really do.