Omg texting people sometimes gets nowhere.

I said hope next week will be better. Not be on the phones too much anymore and we can take good care and start concentrating on ourselves and be more productive.

I thought he got that. It was pretty obvious what I meant.

His reply was yeah hope to get better and the weather is good too.

Do you think he even read my message? I feel like he doesn't want to change it is so frustrating. Then when I bring up the phones he puts it all back on me that I'm at fault. I don't even have my phone anymore when I'm with him.

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AbsolutelyFabulous · F

Then when I bring up the phones he puts it all back on me that I'm at fault. I don't even have my phone anymore when I'm with him.

DARVO... That's what he's doing to you...

Deny, attack, reverse the argument and changes himself from being offender to being the victim

Can you hold him accountable for ANYTHING..
will he actually say sorry and accept anything that he's done wrong??
Can you say no to him..

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AbsolutelyFabulous · F

@BrandNewMan omgoodness 🫣🤐

BrandNewMan · M

@AbsolutelyFabulous Exactly .. jeez

AbsolutelyFabulous · F

And a brandnewman blocked me 😐👀👀

BrandNewMan · M

This discussion is likely best for face-face. Kids in bed, open a bottle of wine and/or a dessert or something to share and talk to one another. Make eye contact .. maybe hold hands or cuddle a bit. The two of you finding common ground on what to do different for both your needs .. not fault w each other.

being · 36-40, F

He definitely read your message. You have agreed already on it and he's hoping it'll be better too. You need to allow change to happen. Trust more, believe it.

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