In life, you get the opportunity to learn or judge, but either way, you have to live with the choice. One thing I learned is that the person you judge

And who they judge, may be you, and it could be that you are as judged as unfairly. So while, I don't believe in judgment, judgment happens so if you keep your heart open and give yourself that way, you have at least in your knowledge, you gave them your respect.

Most people are giving if you are honest with them.

To judge is not necessarily to condemn. But even when it is, we often judge situations in order to protect ourselves and stay safe.

That’s not a bad thing, it often means living longer because of the choice. 🥺

I have even heard of people that hated each other getting married, so add spouse to that too.

Judging people and situations is one of the basic life skills; judging correctly keeps you safe.

The real irony would be if the person you judged grew up to become a judge

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