What the heck!?!

My husband passed away April 30th last year and I’m still a complete wreck. I still sob and feel so inadequate for life.

Meanwhile, this older gentleman comes to my office.... his wife of 57 years just died in the middle of December last year... that’s just a few weeks folks! And he starts flirting and winking at me and telling me I’m a beautiful woman!!!!

Like how?!?!

Are men just wired differently than women?!?! Or am I weird for not being over my husband yet?!?!