I am going to call you Ann because i refuse to call you ‘nothing which would be my normal abbreviation of your “handle”. So Ann, first of all some guys like bigger women. Some guys like HUGE women. If this is beyond your conception google BBW or fat porn and realize no one makes porn that doesnt sell. So for lack of a better saying lets say there is a port for every boat and a boat for every port. I myself like bigger women. It took me until my late 20’s or maybe even early thirties to be secure in myself to be able to say that and own it though. So maybe part of it is timing. Part of it is you havent met the right man. Part of it is that you hate yourself - nothing is sexier (to me) than a big girl who knows she looks good. God do i love a big confident sexy woman. Hating yourself is a boner killer and will only attract guys who hate themselves too or who want to take advantage of you or maaaaaayyyyybe someone with a need to try and save you from yourself. Like i said in my other post 1) post a picture and let us decide and 2) no matter what you have decades to figure it out and fix it.
