They are not genuinely happy with their bodies, they are lying. And some people are desperate or have low self-esteem so will date them.

I am going to call you Ann because i refuse to call you ‘nothing which would be my normal abbreviation of your “handle”. So Ann, first of all some guys like bigger women. Some guys like HUGE women. If this is beyond your conception google BBW or fat porn and realize no one makes porn that doesnt sell. So for lack of a better saying lets say there is a port for every boat and a boat for every port. I myself like bigger women. It took me until my late 20’s or maybe even early thirties to be secure in myself to be able to say that and own it though. So maybe part of it is timing. Part of it is you havent met the right man. Part of it is that you hate yourself - nothing is sexier (to me) than a big girl who knows she looks good. God do i love a big confident sexy woman. Hating yourself is a boner killer and will only attract guys who hate themselves too or who want to take advantage of you or maaaaaayyyyybe someone with a need to try and save you from yourself. Like i said in my other post 1) post a picture and let us decide and 2) no matter what you have decades to figure it out and fix it.

I have a very close friend who inherited lipidemia - a condition that causes weight to settle in the thighs and rear end, and to a lesser extent, in the lower legs. She has been married and widowed, had a long relationship with a man although she refused to marry him. It's pronounced. She looks like her lower half and upper half could have come from two different people. It's not something she can control. It just is. She's beautiful and cheerful and a terrific person. Anybody who can't see that, she's better off without them.

When all is said and done, yeah, the outside matters, but I'd far rather be with a guy who is overweight than a guy with an overblown opinion of himself.

Just because YOU are uncomfortable with yourself doesn’t mean others can’t be either.

Looks aren't everything.

Work out till sweat or get a black boyfriend. Black men love everything big, the fatter the better. Problem solved

i adore very large ladies far bigger than plus size

it's a mental disorder