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I am a rather mean person. Very abrasiveness, very harsh. And though this may be a very difficult feeling to deal with, it does have the perk of allowing me to be very direct. I don't like sensitive people at first, we don't meld. I would crush you under the weight of my overwhelming intensity.

Now, I like people who have a sensitive side. You have to have a sensitive side, it's a weakness not to have vulnerability. But being sensitive and vulnerable, when there is nothing to bring on that feeling is just a travesty. It looks shameful and shows you can't survive. Not with me.

I prefer strong people who are casual and have a tenacity. Or else, what's the point?

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CesareBorgia

Being very direct has absolutely nothing to do with being abrasive nor harsh nor a mean person. I am very direct, but I am none of the things you claim to be. There is absolutely no need to be mean, nor harsh, no abrasive. It's a weakness on your part to be honest, and telling about the type of person you really are.

Being mean comes from within. Most people act mean towards others when they themselves feel threatened, demeaned, or bullied. Being mean is a blaring sign of deep weakness. People who are mean disgust me as they seem very weak, and very very vulnerable. It is so easy to make a mean person crack, break down, bawl. Specially in men, it's just disgusting.

An abrasive personality is a one that hurts, annoys, irritates and criticizes anyone and anything, without any seeming remorse. They are of two types: one who lacks self awareness and does not know they are abrasive, and the other who knows full well that they are abrasive and take pride in it. You seem to be the later. Yet another weakness as it's obvious you feel it to be a good thing to behave in this way, which relates many times to being bullied in the past, and exacting a certain type of revenge on others.

There are many shades of meaning for the word harsh depending on its context, but all imply that something is more unpleasant than it needs to be. In short, you don't need to be harsh but you have stated you are so, this would indicate that you are making being direct unpleasant when you do not need to be so.

If you are not mature enough to realize that all three of these things are in fact a weakness, that your weakness includes not being able to deal with people who are different than you are, that you suffered something in your past that is controlling how you behave, that you cannot overcome things that you do not need to do or be in order to be direct, that you evidently cannot control yourself then you will find other people just simply do not want to associate with you. After all, nobody will put up with a bratty kid going out of his way to be mean, abrasive and harsh, and using being direct as an excuse for being so.

You just sound very, very immature.

And if you choose to delete this, it will just signal yet another obvious weakness, and your inability to accept when another person is being very direct.

twistedrope · 26-30, M

@CesareBorgia Look, kid. You have allot to say to me and I don't like reading big blocks of text. Either man up and talk it through with me in concise well understood chunks of text, or fuck off. Because I don't need so much vitriol that you're spitting at me, when it's clearly you who has the problem.

I don't need to bully people or fight. If it's your experience I can empathize and maybe even share a few. But other then that, this is just a psychological bullshit hate comment. With anger and venom disguised as insight.