I Have Something to Say

Being very direct has absolutely nothing to do with being abrasive nor harsh nor a mean person. I am very direct, but I am none of the things you claim to be. There is absolutely no need to be mean, nor harsh, no abrasive. It's a weakness on your part to be honest, and telling about the type of person you really are.

Being mean comes from within. Most people act mean towards others when they themselves feel threatened, demeaned, or bullied. Being mean is a blaring sign of deep weakness. People who are mean disgust me as they seem very weak, and very very vulnerable. It is so easy to make a mean person crack, break down, bawl. Specially in men, it's just disgusting.

An abrasive personality is a one that hurts, annoys, irritates and criticizes anyone and anything, without any seeming remorse. They are of two types: one who lacks self awareness and does not know they are abrasive, and the other who knows full well that they are abrasive and take pride in it. You seem to be the later. Yet another weakness as it's obvious you feel it to be a good thing to behave in this way, which relates many times to being bullied in the past, and exacting a certain type of revenge on others.

There are many shades of meaning for the word harsh depending on its context, but all imply that something is more unpleasant than it needs to be. In short, you don't need to be harsh but you have stated you are so, this would indicate that you are making being direct unpleasant when you do not need to be so.

If you are not mature enough to realize that all three of these things are in fact a weakness, that your weakness includes not being able to deal with people who are different than you are, that you suffered something in your past that is controlling how you behave, that you cannot overcome things that you do not need to do or be in order to be direct, that you evidently cannot control yourself then you will find other people just simply do not want to associate with you. After all, nobody will put up with a bratty kid going out of his way to be mean, abrasive and harsh, and using being direct as an excuse for being so.

You just sound very, very immature.

And if you choose to delete this, it will just signal yet another obvious weakness, and your inability to accept when another person is being very direct.

Lol, you cannot handle someone else being direct. The paragraphs were not short enough for you? Too much trouble to read perhaps?

If you are going to post something as absolutely ridicules as you have, then you have to accept the fact that someone thoughtful, who actually has something to say about it is going to respond. I took the time to respond intelligently, thoughtfully and yet very direct. If you cannot handle the truth, or a response that was written with the intent of being direct and helpful, that is your flaw not mine.

Interesting that you would accuse me of doing the very things you claim to do, and that you responded in the way you have. Very interesting indeed. My point has been very clearly, and elegantly made by your own response. Thank you.

I see, so instead of reading what I wrote, you instead just arbitrarily state I am being judgmental and thus dismiss what I have stated.

Seems you are very touchy, overly emotional and cannot handle truth when presented to you in a constructive way. It's interesting that you seek to be mean on purpose, abrasive and harsh, and yet when someone is not being so accuse them of bullying.

It's beyond my ability to understand how you cannot see these things all on your own, nor understand the hypocrisy. It seems you are having a bit of trouble understanding, I wish you the very best of luck in that.

There is such a thing as too strong for your own good. No one told me that but I wish they did.

I can't stand one comment blockers, it's like at the very least. Have the common courtesy to act decently.

Ahhh, and now you resort to deleting comments.