Let's say you have 4k in savings... [I Ramble]

And you're going to use it to move away to another country and stay with someone while you get your life together.

But a relative knows you have that amount and they want to borrow it to buy their own stuff/pay bills.

Are you obligated to give it to them? Or is it okay to say, "No, that's my savings to move with."

* This is a serious question btw... 😥

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WillaKissing · 56-60

First of all it is your hard earned and saved money, so it is for you and not a family member. They can make their own more to pay their own bills and to buy their own things.

Second of all if you are going to a foreign country yo meet a person and to get settled in. You will need your $4000 to buy things, settling in, and heaven forbid it the situation does not workout. You will need money to return home on.

Sorry that family member can work like you did to get what they need.

JupiterDreams · 31-35

@WillaKissing 🌺 Thank you

WillaKissing · 56-60

@JupiterDreams You are quite welcome